26 April 2020

Pandemic Isolation And Homestay, My Experience: Part 1 of 3 . . .


April 18th, 2020

I knew the Year of The Rat would be tricky . . . But who knew it would be THIS tricky?! I mean, so many things! Hurricanes, fires, earthquakes, tornados, and Covid-19. To say it has been a tough several months would be an understatement.

While we were in the belly of the beast with Covid over here in China, I watched a lot of Netflix (specifically all of Gossip Girl, which took forever!!! SIX LONG SEASONS, people. Six!!!), knitted 3 scarves, and played hard with my growing puppy. I taught 7 weeks of online lessons and spent more time at the grocery store than I have ever done before. I also wrote a little bit about my experience. These writings are not life-altering writings, but they are very indicative of how I was feeling at the given moment.


          



Like everyone in isolation, I had good days and I had bad days. The bad days were filled with strange thoughts, irritation, and the walls closing in on me. The good days were filled with productivity, good food, successful student work, and feelings of accomplishment. Thankfully, the good outweighed the bad.

     

I ate a lot of cheese during my time at home. Did you know you could order giant hunks of interesting cheeses online from Shanghai?!!! I had no clue and was instantly excited by this prospect which was so worth it! I also ate a fair amount of high-quality chocolate and drank a lot of wine, heavily spiced and mulled because it was freezing cold outside and snowing on occasion. (I have not had cheese, wine, or chocolate since we have started back to school . . . Almost a month back, now!) Sir Rigby has stayed in bed for most of 2020, per usual.

          

Due to the Chinese New Year holiday happening at the beginning of all of this Covid craziness, there were almost no people left in my apartment complex. Lots of Chinese families had already traveled back to visit with their aunts, uncles, cousins, and so-forth. There were just a handful of foreigners (me, a few colleagues) and a few Chinese families left, trapped in our complex for 10 weeks. This allowed for my friend Karla and me to become heavily acquainted with the stray dogs living around our apartments. We fed them daily, took them on cab rides and walks, and swept out the Gazebo for them numerous times, filling it with old mattresses and clothes, to create a safe and warm space for them to sleep and eat. They became our friends and companions, two of them my puppy’s parents.

     


     

All of the various gates into our apartment complex have been closed and barricaded, remaining this way still today. Normally I would not think this a big deal, except the only open gate is about a 15-minute walk from my house. Again, not a big deal . . . Unless you are carrying 10 bags of groceries and two 5-gallon jugs of water. No deliveries are allowed inside, so I am retrieving things all the time. Plus, when I take my dog to the park, I have to physically carry him to the gate and another 30 minutes to the park because of the stray dog population and the various unsavory things on the streets. Again, things could be much worse—so I am grateful—but this is my experience.

          


April 13th, 2020

What a difference a month makes!!!


Today is my first day back at school with a full load of classes. Last week, we had students, but only grades 3 and up. This week, we start back with everyone. I will be waiting, mask on face, for my students at the door, squeezing out sanitizer into their young-but-able hands as they enter the classroom.


Before last week began, I was instructed to change around tables so that students were always a meter apart. All students and teachers, faculty and staff have to wear masks during school hours. Students are not allowed to “mingle” and all group-based events at our school have been cancelled. (Except for a talent show that was dropped in my lap last week . . . More on that at a later date.) It kind of makes my heart hurt a bit that my classroom has turned into such a non-collaborative space. But we do what the pandemic wants.


We are currently working on a postcard project to send out to Jason Brown in Nashville, Tennessee for his most recent mail art show, which will be housed in the Vanderbilt University special collections department. This is a great way for the students to be able to reflect on their time at home during our isolation homestay period. And, it’s a wonderful way for my older students to write out advice to other students their age, helping them to figure out their own isolation homestay period and how best to manage time.

     

It’s been a rough and LONG semester so far. But I hope that things start looking up for everyone around the world soon.

→ → → Next up: Part 2, Online Learning and Reflection


Stay healthy! XOXO!

21 January 2020

Happy New Decade, Everybody!

For me, 2019 was a year full of new and old friends, teaching, and a lot of travel! 



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I traveled to England and Scotland for Chinese New Year (Year of The Pig!!!). I went on a food tour of London via bicycle and I saw Hamilton with Emily from You’re Maker. I had the best time hanging out with her and Sean learning about the history of graffiti in London, eating amazing foods, and drinking lots and lots of coffee! Then I took the train to Scotland and stayed with Chris Kmita and his family. We had the best time reconnecting after 19 years! Dunbar, Scotland is the cutest little coastal town . . . I really fell in love with Scotland! The skies were so blue! What a beautiful place!



















I traveled to Mongolia for Spring Break and I was blown away by the landscape. The people were incredibly kind, there were billions of animals everywhere, and the air was clear, crisp, and clean. Mongolia is virtually untouched by mankind and made me feel like a true adventurer. It remains to be one of my most favorite trips EVER. Don’t even get me started on my love for playing with baby goats!






During the summertime, I managed to get back to the United States. I landed in Cleveland, Ohio and stayed with my best friend of 39 years. Then I traveled to New York City; Raritan, New Jersey; Nashville, Tennessee; Austin, Texas for an IB/MYP conference (where I got to hang out and stay with many friends from my college days); and, finally, to Palm Springs, California where I admired modern era things, the desert landscape, and I got to see my Great Uncle David who is 80 and in impeccable shape!




















In November, I met my friend Anjali in Kyoto, Japan. It was a whirlwind weekend trip, but I fell in love with Kyoto! What a beautiful city! It was *PRIME AUTUMN*, so the leaves were changing! We visited Fushimi Inari-taisha and I fell in love with orange and black. We drank tea and ate lots of amazing foods. We visited a bamboo forest and an enchanting garden. We also went to a magic bar and watched people serve us drinks while performing tricks. It was great fun and there were lots and lots of laughs. I will definitely be going back to Japan in 2020!




In China, I climbed the Great Wall in Beijing, I learned how to make Sichuan food with Angela, I took a weaving class and a marble stamp cutting class, and I biked through Suzhou twice (one of the trips traveling alongside my friends William and Pejay). I traveled to Lijiang, China for yoga and mountain gazing. We held our Thanksgiving this year at a restaurant in downtown Nantong. And, I met my friend from Singapore, Shayne, in Shanghai where we had a fun-filled Chiristmas-y weekend, complete with pizza and mulled wine. 











For Winter Break, and my last travels of 2019, I went to two different yoga retreats in Pokhara, Nepal and met the most AMAZING people of my life. *KEEPERS* People I shared memories with and people who will be friends for a lifetime. I feel all stretchy and bendy after being in Nepal, and wish that I could live there forever. It’s peaceful, it’s beautiful, and it’s full of some of the nicest people I have ever met. Plus, Buddha was born there!









I also found a new job and a puppy towards the end of 2019. I am excited about both, but the puppy is a lot of work! My new job starts in August of 2020, and it's only about 3 hours away from where I am now. I'm kind of thrilled to not be making a cross-global move right now with both the cat and the dog. I will be in Shanghai for the next 3 years! While my job post in Nantong has been nothing but difficult, I am so thankful for the friends I have made along the way! I will miss them dearly . . . 




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2020 is HERE! Be bold and brave and READY!

If you are a United States citizen, regardless of where you are on the globe: register to vote!

Plan things! This podcast has inspired me to start taking new directions in the coming year and the years ahead! Listen to this three-part series to get started . . . 


This article was very encouraging in it's message about ACTION . . . Here's a quote below.

"As I mentioned earlier, if we want to tackle these and other social problems, we need focus on a few critical levers of power:
  1. Elect more women of color into office 
  2. Ensure marginalized people can vote and have the resources to do so 
  3. Remove the influence of corporations and money in general on politics 
  4. Change the tax code so rich people pay their fair share of taxes 
  5. Control the public’s perception on important issues (to align with facts, not fear)"

As always, if you are looking to learn new things and laugh along the way, visit this podcast. I can't recommend it enough! PS: Ronan Farrow BLEW ME AWAY . . . 

And, just for fun. ⇩ Because people lead such interesting lives!



Happy New Decade, everybody!! 
XOXO